Tuesday, December 28, 2010

Youth: Problems, Causes, and Solutions Sermon Outline

(I just finished this outline and am scheduled to preach it Sunday the 2nd of January- my last Sunday in New York)
Youth: Problems, Causes, and Solutions Outline
By: David Scott Harris, July 2010

1.       Introduction      
2.       Is there anything new under the sun? (Ecclesiastes 1:1-3, Psalms 51:5 )
3.       What’s missing?
A.      Low expectations (1 Timothy 4:12, examples of David, Mary, Timothy)
B.      Parental neglect (Deuteronomy 4:9-10, Deuteronomy 6:6-9, Proverbs 13:24, Proverbs 23:13-14, Proverbs 29:17, Ephesians 6:4, Colossians 3:21)
C.      The Cultural Shift
4.       The Root of the problem
A. False Conversions (Hosea 4:6, Matthew 13:24-30)
B. Unbiblical Theology (Galatians 1:8, 2 Peter 2)
C. The Church’s Failure (Acts 2:42, Ephesians 4:14, Romans 12:10, Romans 15:14, Ephesians 4:32, 1 Thessalonians 5:11, 1 John 3:11)
        5. The Manifestations
              A. Disrespect for Authority (Proverbs 30:11, 1 Samuel 15:23, Proverbs 30:17, Deuteronomy 6:6-9, Proverbs 22:6, Ephesians 6:4)
              B. Worldly Cares (Job 21:11-15, Proverbs 21:17, Ecclesiastes 11:9-10, Matthew 10:39,
Matthew 16:26, Luke 21:34, John 12:43, Colossians 3:2, 2 Timothy 2:4, 1 John 2:15-17)
              C. The Dating Game

         6. Biblical Solutions
              A. Cross-Centered Youth Groups (Acts 2:42, Ephesians 4:14, Romans 12:10, Romans 15:14, Ephesians 4:32, 1 Thessalonians 5:11, 1 John 3:11, 1 Corinthians 11:33)
              B. Cross-Centered Parenting (1 Timothy 3:4,5, Titus 1:6, Proverbs 29:15, Proverbs 29:17,  Proverbs 23:13-14)
              C. Personal Repentance (2 Thes. 2:13, 2 Tim. 2:25-26, Acts 17:30, Acts 17:30, Jn. 6:28-29, 2 Tim. 2:22, Rom. 10:11-13,

Wednesday, December 22, 2010

Miracles

Miracles: A Brief Story About a Change in Understanding
          
                As long as I can remember, I've had an extremely skeptical cynicism about the existence of modern day miracles. I mean, don't get me wrong, I haven't doubted what Jesus did, or God did through Peter/Phillip/Paul/etc., but when it comes to the miraculous happening in our present day, I've always been very doubtful. I'm not sure exactly why this is; there is no shortage of mysterious/unexplained occurrences in they lives of my family members, and our family as a whole. My parents journey to New York from California contains some unexplained events of notability (you can ask them about those). My mom's unexplained healing of her back one year before a trip to California is another, but for some reason I can't explain, I've had a very negative attitude toward "modern day miracles" for quite a long time. Now. This was before the night of December 20th, 2010. So here is my story:
          In preparing for my extended South African stay, I've been trying to spend time with various friends who I won't see for a long time. On Monday night I went to a friends house who lives about 20 minutes south of me in the town of Cold Spring New York. It was about 7:30 when I made my ascent up the steep mountain road that leads to his house. It had been very cold, and there was black ice at various places along my journey. I was about half way up the mountain going about 25 MPH, when I hit a large patch of black ice. My car swerved all over the narrow road (thank God it didn't go over the side of the mountain). The steep hill on the right side of the road was at roughly a 60-45 degree incline with respect to the road. My car swerved back across the road and started to go up the incline. At that point I remember thinking in my mind that I wouldn't be able to control the car, and I braced for the imminent flip/crash. I was probably going up the incline for about two seconds, when all of a sudden I was back on the road driving straight up the road. I keep going over it in my mind, trying to remember when I moved the steering wheel back on track, but I can recall no such memory. My only explanation is that there was divine intervention in the form of either my car being moved, or someone taking control of it.
       Now, all that to say is I am now faced with facts I can't deny. I haven't had a radical theological movement, but I've realized several things:
                  1. God MUST intervene in the everyday affairs of men.
                  2. There MUST be some sort of plan for my life that has not yet been realized, because I was spared and did not meet my end when left to myself I would have.
                  3. God IS sovereign, and I can trust him instead of just leaving everything up to myself.

Saturday, December 11, 2010

My First Sermon

Preface: I wrote this one year ago over my Christmas break, and recently made some minor changes. I hope I'll have the opportunity to give it again over the coming year. It's a bit lengthy, but I hope it blesses you. 

Walking in the Spirit

           Introduction and a Message to the Youth
      Good morning, it’s a great privilege for me to be able to bring forth the word of God to you
this morning. Before we jump in the text this morning, I would like to address specifically our
youth. Young men, young women, you stand at this moment at a extremely critical point in
you’re life. The decisions you make in these next couple years will decide what direction you’re
life will take. I stand here this morning because of a challenge. Many have heard me talk about
this book (Do Hard Things). This book gave me a challenge to Do Hard Things for the glory of
God. A challenge that has taken me to the other side of the world. A challenge that can change
you’re life as well. Ask yourself, what does you’re society expect from you? It expects you to be
know the things of the world and be dabbling in those things. It expects you know things about
more things about drugs, sex, and video games then things about math, literature and history- or
how about theology. The world expects you not to care about the things of God at this point in
you’re life- and even if they do then not the true God. Well, does God say about you? Let’s look
at 1st Timothy 4:12: Let no one look down on your youthfulness, but rather in speech, conduct,
love, faith and purity, show yourself an example of those who believe. Paul expected you to be an
example of you’re faith! So ask yourself- am I an example of what I believe? I believe that the
most critical point for exhortation are those years of youth. JC Ryle in his book Thoughts for
Young Men gives several reason why this is important. 1. For one thing, there is the painful fact
that there are few young men anywhere who seem to be Christians. Look around. How many are
Christians. And how many that are act like Christians. Now these are directed to young men, but
they really apply to both young men and young women. 2. Death and judgment are waiting for
young people, even as they waits for others, and they nearly all seem to forget it. 3. What young
people will be, in all probability depends on what they are now, and they seem to forget this. As I
said in the beginning, there is no other more critical time that decides the path that will taken in
life. 4. The devil uses special diligence to destroy the souls of young people, and they don't seem
to know it. 5. Young people need exhorting because of the sorrow it will save them, to begin
serving God now. John Piper tells the story of an old man who finally came to Christ at his old
age, and he looked at his life and WEPT. He had wasted it when he could have started serving
God when he was young. So my challenge to our young people this morning is really a challenge
to look at you’re life. Decide which way you’re going to go, the time of waiting is over! You
either serve God, or serve yourself. You either walk in the spirit of or you gratify the desires of
the flesh. Which brings us to our text this morning. Galatians 5:16-26
        
           Overview of the Galatians
Now, before we get into this passage, let’s get some a bit of background. First of all who’s our
author? Paul. Paul is our author. Now what do we now about Paul? Quick review, Paul was a
pharisee, he was deeply involved in the persecution of Christians. He was saved on the road to
Damascus, Jesus himself appeared to Paul, and Paul became a missionary. He ended up writing
thirteen of the books in the New Testament, and traveling on 3 major missionary journeys. He
eventually was beheaded in Rome by Nero for what he believed. Now the Galatians were the
group of people from Galatia in Asia Minor- now middle Turkey. The Galatians were from Gaul-
modern day France, and of Celtic descent. Now we can assume that the culture in Galatia was
very depraved; being in-between a Celtic influence of it’s roots, and influence of the nearby
Greeks. The church at Galatia was founded during most likely during Paul’s first missionary
journey. The reason Paul wrote to the Galatians was to combat judaizing false teachers who were
undermining the true gospel. So just as Romans can be taken as a comprehensive gospel tract,
Galatians is a bit of a gospel tract as well, while much shorter.
       
            Galatians Outline
     Paul starts Galatians like many of his other letters- showing his credibility, this is necessary
because of the attacks against him. In chapter two Paul talks about how even Peter ended up
faling back into the judaizing tenancies of favoring Jewish converts over Gentile converts, even
to the point of refusing to fellowship with the gentiles and only with the Jews.. Paul finishes the
chapter by reviewing the most important doctrine in the Christian faith- the doctrine of
Justification by grace through faith alone. In chapter three Paul continues talking about
justification. He even rebukes the Galatians in verse one calling them foolish for even
considering justification by works. He then goes on to talk about how the righteous live by faith,
and the reason for the law. In chapter four Paul states more principles of justification and uses
Sarah and Hagar as an allegorical example. Now we come to chapter five. Paul re-affirms
justification in response to the claim that circumcision is first required for salvation. He evens
uses some rather strong language in verse 12, where he says he wishes that those who are causing
the Galatians theological problems to emasculate themselves! We then come to our text for this
morning, you can follow along as I read Galatians chapter 5:16-26: But I say, walk by the Spirit,
and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh. For the desires of the flesh are against the Spirit,
and the desires of the Spirit are against the flesh, for these are opposed to each other, to keep
you from doing the things you want to do. But if you are led by the Spirit, you are not under the
law. Now the works of the flesh are evident: sexual immorality, impurity, sensuality, idolatry,
sorcery, enmity, strife, jealousy, fits of anger, rivalries, dissensions, divisions, envy,[d]
drunkenness, orgies, and things like these. I warn you, as I warned you before, that those who do
such things will not inherit the kingdom of God. But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace,
patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is
no law. And those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and
desires. If we live by the Spirit, let us also walk by the Spirit. Let us not become conceited,
provoking one another, envying one another.
          
          The Indwelling of the Spirit
    So let’s dig into this passage a little deeper, starting with verse 16. We see a few things very
clearly here. For one, we see that this is a present tense command, not something that has
happened in the past or will happen in the future. More obviously we see that the Holy Spirit is a
crucial part of Christian existence. We know from other passages of scripture that all believers
have the Holy Spirit. Romans 8:9 You, however, are not in the flesh but in the Spirit, if in fact the
Spirit of God dwells in you. Anyone who does not have the Spirit of Christ does not belong to
him. 1 Corinthians 6:19-20 Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit
within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price.
So glorify God in your body. So what does the Holy Spirit do? John 16:8 And when he is come,
he will reprove the world of sin, and of righteousness, and of judgment: Of sin, because they
believe not on me; Of righteousness. He convicts the world of sin. He regenerates the repentant
believer Titus 3:5 he saved us, not because of works done by us in righteousness, but according
to his own mercy, by the washing of regeneration and renewal of the Holy Spirit, The Holy Spirit
gives assurance to those of us who are saved by convicting us of sin. He sanctifies us. He fills us
with His presence. We are going to find out today how He gives us power to live holy lives, and
to be witnesses for God. He helps us understand the Bible. He enables us to exhibit the “fruit of
the Spirit” which we will also get into today He gives gifts to each member of the church so that
each of us in the “body” can contribute as the Spirit desires. Possibly the most awesome thing He
does at least to me is He “seals” us for the day of redemption, guaranteeing our inheritance in
heaven. 2 Corinthians 1:21,22 And it is God who establishes us with you in Christ, and has
anointed us, and who has also put his seal on us and given us his Spirit in our hearts as a
guarantee.  So what we have here in Galatians 5:16 is basically a command to walk in the Spirit.
It’s very uncomplicated statement: Walk in the Spirit and you will not gratify the desires of the
flesh.
        
        The Flesh and Spirit: diametrically opposed
                Now we come to verse 17, which I’ll read again: For the desires of the flesh are against
the Spirit, and the desires of the Spirit are against the flesh, for these are opposed to each other,
to keep you from doing the things you want to do. Now the word flesh here in Greek is (and I
hope I’m pronouncing this correctly “sarx” it has several uses, but here it refers to the source of
human weakness- our flesh, in our sinful state. Here we also have another uncomplicated
statement. The flesh and Spirit are at war with each other. We also see here something about
human nature. We want to go the way of the flesh, the Spirit sets its desires against the flesh so
that we won’t go that way, but the way of the Spirit instead. One thing to not believe here as well
is that this battle between flesh is specifically a problem of the believer. If I’m not in Christ then
the flesh wins. That doesn’t mean I don’t have a God-given conscience, but there isn’t this war
going between Spirit until I actually come to Christ in repentance and faith.

       Living in the Power of the Spirit- or the Law
    In verse 18 we find out more about the Spirit and the law. “If you are led by the Spirit, you are
not under the law”. If you have a Johnny Mack Study Bible, then take a look the notes on this
verse, I love what he puts here: “Take you’re choice, these are mutually exclusive”. Either you
walk in the Spirit or you gratify the desires of the flesh. If you choose to walk in the Spirit in
godliness, then the law doesn’t apply to what you do. This HUGE burden of the law isn’t
weighting you down. But if you choose to gratify the desires of the flesh then guess what; the law
does apply to you and it CONDEMNS you. So this here is a choice that has to be made. Not a
one time choice, but a choice that is made through every temptation and every opportunity to
follow the leading of the Spirit.

      The Evident Deeds of the Flesh
      Coming to verse 19 Paul gives us a list of deeds of the flesh. I’m going to go through them,
but I don’t want to just go through and harp on each of them, because that isn’t my main purpose
this morning; there are many preachers who will go through this list and cause a lot of shame, but
no hope. I want to give you some hope this morning for walking in the Spirit, but first we must
look at these evident deeds. Listen to the chastening of the Spirit though. We all have our own
areas of struggle; I daresay that everyone here struggles or at least has struggled with something
in this passage; I know it’s convicting to me almost every time I read it. And this is applicable to
everyone, but I especially want to focus on our youth this morning. Paul starts this list by simply
saying that these deeds are evident; they are obvious if you will. The first deeds he mentions
would definitely be relevant to the culture in Galatia- really relevant to every culture there ever
has been, but Galatia as I have already said was a mix of two cultures- Celtic and Greek; both
very debased in their sexual practices. Immorality, sensuality, and impurity- all under the word
porneia- where we get our word pornography. Porneia would have been used to described many
sexual sins: fornication, homosexuality, bestiality, adultery, and so on. Now we know though of
course from Matthew that we don’t have to actually commit to be under the condemnation of the
law for it, all we have to do is lust in our heart from it, and we’ve sinned- a much higher standard
than simply avoiding committing the sin; which is one of the reason why we are totally lost with
out the Holy Spirit. Maybe of all the sins in this list, that’s the one that you struggle with most.
Fighting these deeds all comes down to submission to the Holy Spirit, which I’ll expound on a
little later. I find however what JC Ryle says in “Thoughts for Young Men” about this subject
especially helpful. “The violation of the seventh commandment (you shall not commit adultery)
is the sin above all others, that, as Hosea says, "takes away the understanding" (Hosea 4:11). It is
the sin that leaves deeper scars upon the soul than any other sin that a man can commit. It is a sin
that destroys thousands of young men in every age, and has even overthrown a few of the saints
of God in the past. Samson and David are fearful proofs. It is the sin that man dares to smile at,
and smoothes over using the terms: thrills, love, uncontrollable passions, and natural desires. But
it is the sin that the devil rejoices over, for he is the "unclean spirit;" and it is the sin that God
abhors, and declares He "will judge" (Hebrews 13:4). Young men, "Flee from sexual immorality"
(1 Corinthians 6:18) if you love life. "Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of
such things God's wrath comes on those who are disobedient" (Ephesians 5:6). Flee from the
opportunity of it--from the company of those who might draw you into it--from the places where
you might be tempted to do it. Read what our Lord says about it in Matthew 5:28, "I tell you that
anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart." Be
like the holy servant Job: "I made a covenant with my eyes not to look lustfully at a girl" (Job
31:1). Flee from talking about it. It is one of the things that ought not even be hinted about in
conversation. You cannot even touch black grease without getting your hands dirty. Flee from the
thoughts of it; resist them, destroy them, pray against them--make any sacrifice rather than give
way to them. Imagination is the hotbed where this sin is too often hatched. Guard your thoughts,
and there will be little fear about your actions.” Wow. Don’t act, speak, joke, or even think about
these impurities. The next word Paul uses is pharmakiea- where we get our word pharmacy. This
word is used to describes what is translated in our Bibles as idolatry and sorcery. This would
refer to mind altering drugs, the occult, and witchcraft. These may not seem like they would be to
modern day evangelical America, but when was the last you read a Harry Potter book or played a
game like World of War Craft? Or how often do we speak so lightly of the effects of drugs? How
many arguments between Christians are there over these things? I tell you if you are a true
follower of Christ, nothing should be sacred to you outside of Him! The next group of things
Paul mention is possibly one the most relevant to us today. Strife, jealousy, outbursts of anger,
disputes, dissensions, factions. Look around at our youth groups, our churches, and our
relationships with people just in those circles; never mind the world. These are deeds of the
flesh! Now all these deeds have something do with anger; and while we know there is a time for
righteous anger, none would fit in here. What can we learn from other passages of scripture?
Well, Proverbs has a lot to say about this:   Do not make friends with a hot-tempered man,

do not associate with one easily angered, For as churning the milk produces butter, and as
twisting the nose produces blood, so stirring up anger produces strife.” Don’t waste you’re lives
fighting each other! There’s a lost world out there! We have an adversary. Again, youth are often
the most susceptible to these deeds of the flesh. Moving on to the last deeds that Paul mentions
here. Drunkenness and carousing- drunkenness being from the Greek word “mathai” simply
meaning intoxication and carousing generally referring practices in that time when people would
in a drunken stupor go out on the town and cause a ruckus or the drunken orgies of the pagan
religions that would go on. So at the end of this train of fleshly deeds we find cost of them. It’s
really again quite simple: Those who practice these things will not inherit the kingdom of God.
They instead will experience the wrath of Almighty God for eternity. Very scary thought. So
where is there hope? Well, let’s look at 1Cornithians 6:9-11 Or do you not know that the
unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor
idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals,  nor thieves, nor the covetous, nor
drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers, will inherit the kingdom of God. Such were some of you;
but you were washed, but you were sanctified, but you were justified in the name of the Lord
Jesus Christ and in the Spirit of our God. Here we see several of these same deeds mentioned in
Galatians and the same verdict in the end for them. But look at what it says at the end! “Such
were some of YOU but you were sanctified and justified through Jesus Christ”. Wow. So the
hope here is really just going back to the gospel, that through repentance and faith we can inherit
the kingdom God.

       The Fruit of the Spirit
But there’s still more in Galatians, let’s go back to verse 22. “The fruit of the spirit is love” lets
stop there a moment. What are the fruit of the Spirit? The fruit of the Spirit are godly attitudes
that will be in the character of one who has been redeemed by Christ. I say again the fruit of the
Spirit are godly attitudes that will be in the character of one who has been redeemed by Christ.
So the works of the flesh show a reflection of an unregenerate heart, while the fruit of the spirit
show a reflection of someone in Christ. So let’s look at these fruits. Love is first in this list-
coming from the Greek word agape; this is a sacrificial love, love that someone demonstrates by
laying down their life. Love is very important, in fact you might even say that all the fruit of the
spirit branch down from this sacrificial love. 1 Corinthians 13:13 But now faith, hope, love, abide
these three; but the greatest of these is love. This sacrificial love is best demonstrated by Jesus
dying for us, a love that none can compete with. Chara comes next, this is the Greek word that
we translate as joy. This joy is one that comes not from any current circumstances but from
knowing God’s promises and believing them. This joy really can’t be touched by difficulties in
the life of the individual- like Paul singing in jail. Eirene- peace; this fruit comes from a “inner
comfort and peace” brought by a confidence of salvation. Patience- from the Greek word
makruthumia; this is an ability to endure pain and suffering, especially for Christ in this context,
as Paul did. Chrestotes- kindness; this is having concern for others, thinking about them before
yourself. Once again reflected best of all with God’s love for us. There is no greater kindness
then to show love to those who hate you, and be willing to die for them as well. Agathosune-
goodness; this is best described by moral excellence, and Christians should be exemplifying this
in their lives. Pistis- faithfullness; trustworthiness and loyalty. Parotes- most of you’re Bibles
probably say gentleness, however this word is better translated as meekness. Humbleness and
gentleness would be part of this. The New Testament uses this word to describe three different
states of attitude: Submitting to the will of God, putting other’s before yourself, and being
teachable. Egkrateia- self control; the final fruit of the Spirit signifies the restraint of fleshly
passion and appetite and is absolutely essential to survival in a fleshly world. After this list we
have statement that tells us something very important about the fruit of the Spirit. We who are in
Christ can please God without the law. The law has no bearing on these. Against such things
there is no law. “Now those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passion
sand desires.” The word crucified here means to execute, to kill. So in being a follower of Christ
and having the Holy Spirit, the believer has killed; destroyed his/her fleshly passions. We who
are in Christ no longer suffer under the burden of the LAW! We’re free!! Now, unfortunately that
doesn’t mean that we will never again sin, we still have our fallen sin nature until we are finally
perfected, but we are free of a massive burden.


               Conclusion
      In conclusion Paul states what should be obvious: “If we live by the Spirit, let us also walk by
the Spirit.” It’s the only logical response. So what then should we do? How do we walk in the
Spirit. Many tend to believe that there is one instant where an individual goes from gratifying the
flesh, to walking with the Spirit; but then they are disappointed when they find themselves in
fleshly deeds asking, “Why have I done this? I thought I was walking with the Spirit.” So what
then is the key to walking in the Spirit? Well, lets go back to the word walk. The Greek word for
walk in this case is per-ee-pat-eh'-o. This word means not only to walk, but to progress. Walking
in the Spirit is moment by moment. There is no one instance where there will be no fleshly
appetite until perfection. So the bad news? Stumbling in the flesh will probably happen in the
future, in fact it will probably happen today. But there is good news! News that is so so so much
better than the bad news. The good news is that if you are in Christ, (you have put you’re trust in
him and repented of you’re sins) you are no longer condemned by the law. You have magnificent
freedom to walk in the Spirit. Now if you don’t know Jesus Christ, please don’t leave today
without talking with the pastor, one of the church deacons, or even one of our youth. You can
have freedom from the flesh, and inherit eternal life. Let’s Pray.

Sunday, December 5, 2010

A Brief Look at the Difference Between Humanism and Biblicism

The only way to get rid of temptation is to yield to it. -Oscar Wilde

hmm...

1 Corinthians 10:13
No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it.

Thursday, November 25, 2010

Meditations on Veterans Day, Thanksgiving, Reformation Day, and Boyhood

      Yesterday I was walking through a building at my college to the student activities office. I wanted to submit my letter to the school newspaper, and as I was walking out I noticed a decoration that said "Happy Turkey Day". Turkey Day? Seriously, have we secularized Thanksgiving to the point that the only non-offensive aspect is eating turkey? (I might point out that this is offensive to vegetarians). I've lately noticed these discrepancies more blatantly than other years. Last month Reformation Day came around (on the same day as Halloween) and few of my Christian friends had heard of it, let alone secular acquaintances. I was disappointed. Two weeks later was another day that I grew up observing with religious dedication. Veterans Day. I actually went to school wearing a jacket and tie with a big American flag tie clip on it. When asked why, I replied "Why, it's Veterans Day! Respect!" I was disappointed when my school had no observance, nor did anyone else really remember it's occurrence on the 11th. Seeing the "Turkey Day" decoration made me come to a realization: I am the last of a dying breed.
       I guess it makes sense to go in order of the holidays: Halloween. We (my family and I) never really had any sort of formal celebration- we would go to a friends house and hand out tracts with candy. Mom might make sloppy joes since it was a tradition in her family. That was the extent of it. We knew about Reformation day, but we never really had much of a celebration of it until a few years ago when we first saw the film "Luther". Enjoying it very much, we started a informal tradition on Reformation Sunday that isn't really concrete, but we always discuss the Reformation, Luther, Calvin, Tyndale, so on and so fourth.
       Veterans Day. My grandfather loaded bombs onto B-25 Mitchells in the Pacific during World War Two, my great uncle died in the pacific, and several of my other relatives and close friends have served or are serving in the armed forces. Veterans Day was always a big deal. I began the day by getting out of bed and getting into to combat clothing, going outside, and running around our woods fighting Germans, Japanese, or Muslims (post-9-11). There has always been a ceremony down the street from where we live where my dad would give the invocation. We would always dress up and attend- I'd always get chills up my spine throughout the ceremony, and it ended by me walking up to veterans and thanking them for what they'd done for me.
      Thanksgiving. My parents are lovers of history. That's probably why my brother has a bachelors in it, and neither of us had to take any college classes in it (we took tests for credit instead). The story of Thanksgiving is one of the first stories we ever learned, and it was always crystal clear: Pilgrims leave England; Pilgrims come to America; Pilgrims suffer; Pilgrims overcome; Pilgrims give thanks to God for his providence (and invite Indians). Well, as I grew older I realized that what I was told was quite different than the beliefs of modern academia. They're version goes a little like this: Pilgrims are snobs, so they leave England; Pilgrims are stupid, so they starve; Pilgrims are bigots; Indians are saints; Indians help Pilgrims; Pilgrims have a feast to thank Indians for helping them. To celebrate this historical event we eat turkey on Thursday and go to bed early so we can get up early on Friday to spend ourselves in poverty. In MY home we had a traditional meal, went around the table and said what we were thankful to God for, and then watched Miracle on 34th Street (it's an old black and white movie my parents grew up watching).
      Now, I realize that not all families are the same, and culture shift isn't always a bad thing, but the state of our culture and especially the state of modern boyhood greatly concerns me. I teach Sunday school, and up until this semester I was an AWANA counselor working with 3rd and 4th grade boys. I was always sad to hear the lack of interesting things that the boys did. They watched TV, they played video games. I won't say that I didn't do either of those things when I was their ages, but I did a lot more, and I don't mean just playing sports. Here are some of the big differences I've noticed: Nowadays boys spend the majority of their free time looking at some sort of screen. When I was younger I spent the majority of my free time outdoors. The heroes of boys these days are predominately fictional (with the exception of athletes). My greatest heroes growing up were most all real people- Davey Crockett, Miles Standish, Jedediah Smith, George Washington, Martin Luther, etc.. Lately I've noticed that parents seem to be very strict in even letting their boys adventure through the woods and fields of our beautiful state. I guess it doesn't really matter because I'm not sure if they'd really have an interest anyway. When I was the same age I spent countless hours with friends back in the woods of our property building forts, playing with toy guns, and exploring. The last and most concerning for me is respect. Maybe it's just that I was smaller, but I definitely get the impression that when I attended Veterans/Memorial Day as a young boy, there were far more in attendance. I remember other boys my age who were brought by their parents because they wanted to instill a sense of respect for those have given their lives for us. Today I look around and there are so few who attendance, let alone boys.

    I very could be the last of a dying breed in the sense that America no longer values what I grew up valuing. I don't know what God's plan is for my life- whether he will give me a family and the opportunity to raise any boys of my own, but if He does, I know exactly the qualities I would hope for them to mirror- those that my parents instilled in me: namely respect. In the meantime I will encourage boys to get off the couch, play with some plastic soldiers, go build a fort, or just go on an adventure!

Monday, November 22, 2010

A Psalm of David (but not the Bible David)

I was sitting in world religions the other day... pretty board. The teacher was talking about Judaism-mostly Bible stories from the Old Testament. Although I was interested in the topic, I don't care for the professor all that much, and she's a might boring, so I looked down at the blank sheet of paper in front of me. She talked about David. David. "That's my name. It's also the name of my greatest Bible hero ('sides Jesus) whom after I was named. He also wrote psalms. Hmmm... my name's David, I wonder if I could write a psalm..."
So I tried to write a psalm 20 minutes before the end of World Religions. I kind of started with like one line and then kept going with it, so here's my final product:

Lord, give me the strength to serve you in humility;
For my flesh desires to boast
Give me the meekness to love others;
For left to myself I reap hate
Oh Lord my Lord, teach me your law!
That I may be equipped with for the work you would have me do
Show me where I err O Lord, that I may turn from my evil ways;
Oh Lord my God! Remove me from my earthly fear!
That I may be fearless in the declaration of Your mighty works;
Lord, give me the desires of Thine heart, not Mine

(I actually also made up a chord progression in 3/3 time: Am, F, Am, F, Am, F, G, C, Am, F, Am, F, G, C)

Saturday, November 20, 2010

Thoughts from a Leaving Student: An epilogue of my first two college years


Forward: So. I'm leaving. I just got my ticket for South Africa and I'm unsure if I'll be back at DCC at all. I'm going to send this to the school paper this week. Tell me what you think!

From Someone Moving On:

Thoughts from a leaving student

By David Scott Harris

Winston Churchill once said, “Continuous effort - not strength or intelligence is the key to unlocking our potential.” While he was speaking in the context of a nation at war, I’ve found this to be true with my Dutchess Community College experience as well. I was homeschooled- never went any public or private school for any grade, and at the age of 17 I dove headfirst into DCC. My first class was PHS 102-earth science. It was a great first class to have. I had fun, got good grades, and left with a magnificent sense of accomplishment. I signed up for the fall semester as a full time student, not really thinking it would get any more difficult. Boy was I wrong. I can’t count the number of times I sighed in frustration that semester at the amount of effort I had to put in to my studies. I thought it would be easy! I mean come on, after all this is COMMUNITY college. I actually did pretty well that semester- in the end only receiving one B among the A’s. The spring semester was quite the same- except at the end I got one B and one A MINUS. I was crushed. Surely my GPA could never recover (yes, I have high standards). Meandering around the house on the day I got my grades back, I was in a terrible mood. My dad asked me what the problem was. I reluctantly told him about my grades. He looked at me and thought a moment. Then he asked a simple question. “Did you do your best?” I thought about it. “Well… yeah, as far as I know…” He returned, “Well then you don’t have anything to be sorry for, you didn’t go to school to get credit for things you already knew, you went to learn.” My dad is pretty smart. Over this current semester my dad’s and Winston Churchill’s words have proven true over and over. It’s been the hardest semester academically for me yet, but I’ve given it effort- I didn’t come to learn things I already knew, I came to learn NEW things, and I have!

I am now leaving. I’ve accepted an offer in South Africa to intern with a missions organization for six months, and I am unsure if I will return to DCC after. For some time I’ve been thinking about sharing what I’ve learned here with my fellow students, so here goes.

1. As I presented in the beginning, give it your best effort. You can forgive yourself for failing with effort, but without effort you’ll live with the knowledge that you could’ve done better for the rest of your life.

2. At first I felt like I was alone in my studies because I didn’t know very many people at DCC or have many friends at first. I was wrong. There are great resources that can enhance your academic performance here, such as the math lab, academic services, and GOING TO YOUR PROFESSORS.

3. This is a kind of continuation of part 2: Make friends. Maybe you’re an introvert like me and have great difficulty in this area, but it’s no excuse, you CAN make friends here, and there are a lot of nice people. If you want to meet people like you, go to the club bulletin in Dutchess Hall, look at all the clubs, and attend one! Most of my good friends here at DCC I have met in my club.

4. There are many different types of classes you can take here at DCC. If you’re taking math/science classes, the answer to a question is generally solid. In other words, 1+1=2. This is universally agreed upon. However, there are many other classes here where the answer is not concrete- it’s debatable (for example: economics, sociology, philosophy, etc.). I have a piece advice for those classes: Don’t believe something simply because a professor tells you it’s the truth. Do the research for yourself! Find out what you believe and later in life you will be grateful that you put in the time. In my experience most all professors will agree with me.

5. Do hard things. Your society may not expect you to excel academically, stay out of trouble, or help other people, but that doesn’t mean you should give into your society. Do the hard things! Study, work hard, do the right thing, and you will never regret these years.

6. Dream big. It’s repeated so much that we tend to forget its importance, but in the words of C.S. Lewis: “You are never too old to set another goal or too dream big dreams.” Never forget your dreams!

Godspeed my fellow students!

Monday, November 15, 2010

The New World Episode Two


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4L368lJHmX4
This video brings back some certain memories for me. Around the time I was in 5th grade I was extremely interested in the early explorers of America. I read countless books about Leif Ericson, Sir Francis Drake, John Cabot, and others. I knew the life stories of all the major French, British, Spanish, Dutch, German, Portuguese, and Italian explorers. I wrote papers on them for school, and dressed up like them as I ran through the woods and fields of our seven acre property. You can see the first video on facebook (search D.H. Productions) and this one is now on youtube. More to come hopefully!

Thursday, November 4, 2010

Thoughts on the Death of a Friend from David Harris

Prologue: I'm not exactly sure what to call this... essay? report? I guess just thoughts. I needed to write them down so they would't be forgotten, thanks for reading.

Hi. My name is David Harris and I’m a college student at Dutchess Community College, and soon to be missionary. I’ve been doing a lot of thinking lately. Two years ago I lost a friend. His name was Daniel Mari, and he died at the age of 17. I was 16 then, we were several months apart in age. I’ve been thinking about him a lot this week because today is the anniversary of his death. Let me start by telling you his story, and then I’ll tell you what effect his life has had on mine. Danny was born in June of 1991- 4 months before me. He had two loving parents- Tony and Sharon. He also had two brothers- Anthony and Johnny. He also had a wealth of friends- many from school and many from the church his family attended. That’s where I first met Danny. I lived in the house next to the church, my father being the pastor. Danny and I became friends so long ago, I don’t remember how old I was, and all I remember are the kind of things we used to do. His mother would often clean the church, and help my mother clean our house (she had injured her back when she was a nurse). Danny and his brothers would often come over during these times. (I have two brothers who were the same ages as Danny’s brothers). We could often be found on the 7-acre plot my family and I lived on playing with toy guns or building forts. As we grew up we had a lot in common- AWANA, Boy Scouts, sports, etc. When I was 10 years old Danny and I both went to a Christian camp during the summer of 2002. We both had a very hard time at that camp. I was extremely homesick and cried most of the time I was there. Danny got picked on by some of our other friends and other campers there. I left two days after arriving due to illness, but Danny stayed the whole week. We were both often picked on in Boy Scouts as well, but we had a decent time until our troop folded in 2005. After that I didn’t see Danny anymore. His family stopped coming to our church and I had other friends, so I didn’t reach out to Danny like I could’ve. I didn’t see Danny for almost a year from 2005-2006, but then in the middle of 2006 we got a phone call. Danny had leukemia. I didn’t see him for a long time over that year, but heard updates often when my parents would talk about his situation. During the summer of 2007, things didn’t look very good for Danny. I went to visit him in July of 2007 with some mutual friends at the hospital where he was to receive a bone marrow transplant. We visited him for about an hour and talked about our days in Boy Scouts and such. He was extremely positive and said that he was glad he was going through all this now and not later in his life. We left and I didn’t see him again for months. I saw him in December of ‘07 at a event for my church youth group at a bowling alley. I said hello, but we never got past formalities really. Once again, it was a while before I saw him again. He may have been once or twice that he came to church over the next few months, but even if he did I probably didn’t even say hi. Then my house received another call one day during the summer of 2008. The bone marrow transplant had infected Danny- it was unsuccessful. My parents and I drove down to the hospital in New York City to see him in August. It looked grim for Danny. We didn’t know if he’d make it through the day. We spent what seemed like an eternity waiting to go in while the nurses and doctor attended to him. Finally, we went into his room. Danny was reclined on hospital bed with what seemed like a hundred tubes and needles connected to his body. He couldn’t talk either. A pipe was attached to his esophagus helping him breath so that he could not talk unless it was capped. The nurses left the room and we talked to him. He started crying at first sight of seeing us. I’m really not sure if it was because he was happy to see us, or upset because he didn’t have the ability to give us a hug or even effectively talk to us. I’ll remember the way his eyes looked that day until the day I die. It was clear to me that this was a young man terrified of dying. He capped his breathing pipe back in so he could breath better. My father talked to him for about a half hour about being sure of his salvation. I quietly listened until it was time for the doctor to come in and check on him again. I waited for another hour or so while my parents talked to his mother. We saw him one last time before we left that night. He was extremely upset- even hitting his bed with anger because of his setbacks. My dad talked to him a little more about spiritual things, and he sobbed. He waved goodbye to us. The doctor told us he was doing better and that his best chance was to keep his fighting spirit. I left totally believing he would be ok, but I knew seeing a peer in that condition had changed me. One month later Danny’s condition was still declining, so my friend and I with my parents and younger brother made the trip to NYC to see him. This time he was laying on the bed asleep. We were told the drugs made him come in and out of conciseness. Eventually he came around and saw us. He couldn’t really speak, but he mouthed out our names as he saw us. My father talked to him about spiritual things for a while longer, but this time instead of the fear he had demonstrated during the previous visit, he looked up us and smiled the biggest smile. It was then I knew beyond the shadow of a doubt that I was looking down at a fellow brother in Christ. There was no trace of that fear I had seen previously. I knew then that no matter what happened to Danny- whether he lived or died he would be ok. Danny died October 21st. The wake was held three days later on my birthday. It broke my heart to see so many people there with no hope at all for Danny. I wanted to shout, “Don’t you know where Danny is! He’s the happiest he’s ever been!”. The funeral was the next day and it was much the same. I sensed a hopelessness in the hearts of many of the attendees. I wasn’t hopeless. I knew where Danny was. Now I’ve just told that story to introduce you to how Danny’s silent testimony has changed my life. My life moved on. I started college,and became more and more immersed in my every day wind and grind, but rarely a day went by that I didn’t think of Danny (as I still do today). Gradually I thought more and more deeply about Danny’s short life. He didn’t get the chance to attend school, work an occupation, or get married- the three things that my peers are most focused on. Danny’s life has taught me so much about my own life! Whenever I remember him I remember what’s truly important in life. Whether I am “successful” in college, work, or relationships is really irrelevant to the true purpose of my life. His short life has inspired me to travel to South Africa on missions, lead a Christian group on my college campus, and given me courage to face sin in my own life. Danny couldn’t really talk at the end of his life, but if he had been able to, I think I might know what he might have said. He would asked why his peers are so distracted by the things of this world and refuse to dwell on the important things in life. So I challenge you: what is distracting you? What is holding you back from living the life that God would will you to live? Is it your social standing? Your academic goals? Sports? Your girlfriend, boyfriend, or pursuit of such? Luke 12 talks about a man who spent his life in the pursuit of building up earthly treasures. What did God call this man? A fool! He had spent his life pursuing things that had no eternal bearing and his life was required of him. What about you? Young man? Young woman? Your very lives may be required of you in an instant, let along two years of Leukemia. You may not the chance to prepare as Danny did. I don’t know why Danny was taken at the prime of his life. I don’t try to pretend that what happened wasn’t a tragedy, and he won’t be missed immensely. However, I know the Bible says that God works all things together for good to those who believe on His name. Maybe God saved Danny by taking him home, I don’t, nor can I ever know, but I trust in God and HIS purposes instead of man’s uncertainty. My hope is that if you are reading this and you don’t know where you would end up if your life was required of you this day, that you would know! Danny knew that if he confessed Jesus as Lord and believed in his heart that God raised him from the dead, he would be saved (Romans 10). Also, if you do know where you would go, but are distracted by the things of this world, that you would throw those distractions off, and live your life as if it was worthless except for what God would will for your life. I thank God for allowing me to know Danny Mari.